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5 Strategies to Accept Negative Things in Your Life

5 Strategies to Accept Negative Things in Your Life

In my life lately, I’ve been working on acceptance. In the past, I’ve resisted acceptance. Acceptance seemed weak, like I was okay with failure or not being the best I could be. But as I have grown older, I have realized I do have some limitations. There are certain...
Resisting, Accepting, Learning

Resisting, Accepting, Learning

Last week, I hurt my back during my workout. I went to the doctor, and the good news is that it is just a strained muscle. The bad news is that it hurts really bad, and I’ve been hobbling around like an 85-year-old. (No offense to any of my readers who are, in fact,...
Action and Acceptance

Action and Acceptance

Sometimes I struggle with the paradox of action and acceptance. I know action is important. When I’m struggling with something, or want something to be different in my life, it’s important to DO SOMETHING. Taking concrete steps to change your behavior is one of the...
Alignment with the Way Things Are

Alignment with the Way Things Are

Often in my life, I’m working to change or improve some aspect of my life. As a psychologist, the people I work with usually want to change or improve something as well. This is all well and good. I think it is helpful to be in the process of working toward your...
Riding Out the Highs and Lows

Riding Out the Highs and Lows

Life is full of highs and lows. Sometimes it’s helpful to know that for most of us, both the highs and the lows don’t last too long. I remember one day not too long ago that I was in a grumpy mood. My day was really busy, and on top of that, I was having car problems....
3 Questions to Ask When You Feel Bad

3 Questions to Ask When You Feel Bad

People seek help for all sorts of problems, but at a basic level, most people who seek help are unhappy or feeling bad about some part of their life. They want to figure out a way to live a life that is more satisfying and meaningful. In this blog post, I want to...
Give a Gift of Grace

Give a Gift of Grace

A colleague of mine sent me an email recently. He wanted to organize a research project on grace. I thought it was a great idea. Even though I think grace is really important, there isn’t much research out there on what exactly grace is, or how it works. I think of...
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